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Sunday, January 10, 2010

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What does one say to a girl one loves but is not sure whether she loves him back?

More so, if the girl happens to be a very good friend, and one fears losing her friendship. :|

30 comments:

Me said...

be the Best friend ever and be in a position to discuss her emotions and relations with you and the rest with relative ease.Find out what she seeks and see if that fits you

amaltas said...

One makes an obscure blog-post and waits for the girl to read and take the hint :-)

Swagat said...

Tell her SR.
But firstly tell her that her friendship is most important, more than reciprocation of love. And come what may, you don't want that to get affected.
Best of luck.

P.S.: Amaltas' idea is pretty good :D

Gautu said...

hehe..call her frm a coin box ...keep ur name a suspense...n reveal later / take help frm a common frnd :D

Kaddu said...

If the friendship is really so good, it won't suffer either way... and if it does, then it wasn't too deep anyway.

You'll never find out unless u ask her urself. And taking some common friend's help does work sometimes, but not always. Depends on what kind of girl she is...

Roshmi Sinha said...

I second Kaddu :)

Tangerine said...

Ah... the cons of falling for your best friend.
Honestly, i agree with Kaddu and Roshmi.

Jil Jil Ramamani said...

Let a common friend put the thought in her head...see the reaction..

Corinne Rodrigues said...

:) - do you feel another blog post coming on?

C

mystish said...

LOL :)
one gets the girl to watch films like 'Just Friends' and 'Made of Honor' to make her realize that her BEST FRIEND is actually THE GUY!!!

:P
besteez and hugs

. said...

Fortune favors the brave!!

Dil Chahta Hai's famous Dialogue - "Sumit!! Be a man!!"

Mahesh Kalaal said...

If I were him, I would say....

" I Love you ... "
I mean it.
I feel being a friend she should understand my emotions and feelings(and need not say Yes..).
Being her friend, I should be transparent from my side.
Still, both can be friends.... :) :) :)

BTW, gud thought from you buddy.....

Mukund said...

Just say it... get it out of the way cause if it remains unsaid then it will hurt the friendship anyways

Grayquill said...

Oh the stresses of youth. How hard you have it. I am not wise enough for this one. What do you want most friendship or love? Are you willing to sacrifice friendship for possible love?

Nandita Mathews said...

make her read the blog !i think she'll get the hint.

Anonymous said...

Hues of intrepidness....
If you feel it say it.....

If it was meant to be, it will be....

If not, the Cosmos has a billion other souls....and you AIN'T alone.

Move on, Live on and Stay strong...

Sheeesh that doesn't even rhyme!

Point is....You know!

Anonymous said...

And if you know....

Then sure as heaven.....

She's gotta know....

Everything else comes later.

GurNeet said...

If you don't let her know, you'll always regret it.
So Go ahead man !
But if you can, be somewhat creative in expressing...which would add to the fun.

Anonymous said...

Your blog keeps getting better and better! Your older articles are not as good as newer ones you have a lot more creativity and originality now keep it up!

Anonymous said...

Hmmm,

the quintessential dilemma...

Should you tell her the truth and maybe lose her as a friend...but then maybe you gain a lover?

Or should you play a stupid hide and seek game where you hide your real emotions just so that you don't lose a friend.

Well, well.....allow me to illuminate you my friend..and trust me when I say I have experience about this mysterious force called Love.

I've survived insanity, some years in prison, and more because of love.

So the first thing you want to be sure of is, that it really IS love...and not some bad fruit you ate earlier causing indigestion.

Once you are absolutely certain, it IS love.....and be prepared to pay a price for it..including the possibility of losing a good friend...SAY THAT YOU LOVE HER OUT LOUD! And skip the stupid hide and seek games for the teens!

Be forthright and candid, no matter how heavy the price...and you can survive heart ache and heartbreak.....just stay the course. Spare yourself and HER all the stupid romantic flicks and get REAL! And trust me when I say this.....truth is stranger that fiction...
If you want her...T-E-L-L her.....
Leave the rest to the Almighty.
And Live on, in the secure knowledge that you dared to dream and chase that dream to its end.....

Indian Pundit said...

More so, if the girl happens to be a very good friend, and one fears losing her friendship

Hi, if the girl is a very good friend......then no worries go ahead and tell her....she might refuse or accept but she will still be your friend....very good friendships are not broken easily.

Cheers

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BardSpeaks said...

Sigh. The eternal, unanswerable question! You have nothing to lose!

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不舒服 said...

hello........................................

Tangerine said...

sumit, did u tell her.. yet?

Tangerine said...

Sumit you have been tagged

http://thenightwhispers.blogspot.com/2010/02/eight.html

Choco said...

Wow! You have received so much advice-sound advice, from so many people. Come on now Sumit. You have gotta tell her. Otherwise you will have to live with a "What if". :)

Do come back and let us know what happened. Me Curious me! :)

Anonymous said...

CUTE LOVE STORY

A BOY HAD CANCER AND HE HAD ONE MONTH TO LIVE.

HE LIKED A GIRL WORKING IN A CD SHOP VERY MUCH.

BUT HE DID NOT TELL HER ABOUT HIS LUV.

EVERYDAY HE WENT TO THE CD SHOP ANDBOUGHT A CD ONLY TO TALK TO HER.

AFTER A MONTH HE DIED.

WHEN THE GIRL WENT TO HIS PLACE AND ASKED ABOUT HIM,

HIS MOM TOLD THAT HE DIED AND TOOK HER TO HIS ROOM.....................................

SHE SAW ALL THE CD'S UNOPENED ...............

THE GIRL CRIED N CRIED N FINALLY DIED.

YOU KNOW Y SHE CRIED?


ÇOZ SHE HAD KEPT HER OWN LUV LETTERS INSIDE THE CD PACKS.

SHE ALSO LUVED HIM...........

Moral of the story: If u love someone......tell him/her directly don't wait for destiny to play!